This is a true story that happened in japan.
In order to renovate the house, a Japanese man breaks open the wall. Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls.
When tearing down the walls , he found that there was a lizard stuck there, because a nail from outside had been hammered into one of his feet.
He sees this, feels pity and at the same time curious . When he checks the nail, it was nailed 5 years ago, when the house was built !!!! What happened?
The lizard had survived had in such a position for 5 years!!! In a dark wall partitioning for years without moving, it is impossible and mind boggling.
Then he wondered how this lizard survived for 5 years without moving a single inch, since its foot was impaled!
So he stooped his work and observed the lizard , to see what it has been doing, and how it has been eating.
Later, not knowing from where it came from, appears another lizard, with food in its mouth. Ah! he was stunned and touched deeply. For the lizard that was impaled by the nail, another lizard had been feeding it for the past 5 years.
Imagine…. It has been doing that untiringly for 5 long years , without giving up hope on its partner.
Imagine what a small creature can do, that a creature like us, blessed with a brilliant mind cannot do. Please never abandon your loved ones. Don’t turn your back on people because there in difficulty. Don’t see yourself as more intelligent or the best. You might be a bit luckier today but life is uncertain and can change things tomorrow.
A moment of negligence might break the very heart which loved you against all odds.. Before you say something just remember…………… It takes a moment to break but an entire lifetime to make……
God created space within our fingers so that we can hold hands… Be there for somebody today… Some body will be there for you tomorrow….. If there is the GRACE of GOD in your life , then enemies are inevitable. If no one has ever gossiped or talked bad about you, it means nothing good has ever happened to you.
Never allow anyone to put you in a position of depression and self pity in life. Those whose life has no joy will always find every means to remove happiness from other people’s life.
Never allow the opinions of people who didn’t see your tears stop your laughter in Life…. You don’t owe anybody an explanation to be happy.
Never see yourself through the eyes of those who don’t value you. To be beautiful means to be yourself. To stand out means to be outstanding. You do not need to be accepted by others, You just need to accept yourself.
Never beg anyone to accept you for who you are. Anything you acquire through begging will require begging to retain.
Never downgrade yourself while trying to upgrade anybody in life. Anyone who sees you like an option doesn’t deserve to be a priority in your life.
Negative minds will never give you a positive life. Anyone who is always reminding you about what is wrong with you has a personal problem which he/she wants to take out on you.
Sometimes treating people too much like celebrities, they end up treating you like an ordinary person. Your equally important.
Be humble but selective . Being selective doesn’t mean you are arrogant or proud . It simply means you know your worth. If your conscious of your personality avoid too much familiarity .
Some will hate you and some will love you. Loving you or hating you are both in your favour .
When people love you, you live peacefully and happily in their hearts, and when people hate you, you become the land lord in their head living painfully in their brain everyday and giving them sleepless nights.
Be a Blessing to someone